Thursday, October 6, 2011

LOVE & HATE = YOU & I

LOVE wouldn’t be as blissful without HATE

I call our so called love story a HATE story because it didn’t really start with LOVE after all. It all started with being total strangers! Guess what’s next? He was an event crasher!  I didn’t invite him for our "free food taste" advertising class project.  What the heck? Who was he? Some classmates drooled over his unkemptly tied long hair. Guys like him can never catch my attention.  He was not even close to ideal. He was such an unnoticeable being. In short, NOT MY TYPE! But fate, surprisingly, has its own way of bringing you to the person whom you can claim yours forever! Of course not literally forever, but at least for the rest of your life!

Until now, I don’t exactly know what made him love the over demanding, self-gratifying, conceited, and emotionally unstable ME? Let me elaborate on being emotionally unstable. A girl is acceptably emotional, but beyond that is no longer tolerable! I know guys hate it when their girls switch from being sweet and gentle to an extremely monstrous state. I am even more monstrous than you could ever imagine. Almost every day, I used to greet him with devastating break-ups, whining words of frustration, and idealistic views of what a boyfriend should/shouldn’t do. I was freakishly immature and the relationship was a total disaster! But I guess there’s no precise formula whatsoever for a lasting relationship. We have had our share of ups and downs and we will continuously experience the seemingly endless cycle. It’s been two years since the day we committed our souls to each other.  I know it’s too early to conclude because the future is still uncertain but the uncertainty makes such relationship a marvel.

Our love story is not just a mere story of LOVE, it’s also a story of HATE

H = Happiness A = Acceptance T = Trials E = Experiences
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LOVE and HATE don’t collide after all, because they complement each other like 
                                             You & I 
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I’ve written this for our 2nd year anniversary (July 15, 2011) but glad I didn’t share it yet, for words have been more substantiated since then.